Thursday 29 November 2007

The Meaning of ASAP

Ever wonder about the abbreviation A.S.A.P.? Generally we think of it in terms of even more hurry and stress in our lives. Maybe if we think of this abbreviation in a different manner, we will begin to find a new way to deal with those rough days along the way.

There's work to do, deadlines to meet;
You've got no time to spare,
But as you hurry and scurry-
ASAP - ALWAYS SAY A PRAYER;     

In the midst of family chaos,
"Quality time" is rare.
Do your best; let God do the rest-
ASAP - ALWAYS SAY A PRAYER.
                        
It may seem like your worries
Are more than you can bear.
Slow down and take a breather-
ASAP - ALWAYS SAY A PRAYER
     
God knows how stressful life is;
He wants to ease our cares,
And He'll respond to all your needs : always say a prayer

Tuesday 27 November 2007

Mel & Willem's wedding

On Saturday 24 November, Mel and Willem were married by our pastor Brett, on what was a perfect day.  OK, so it rained some, but it was cool (especially since this time of year can get quite hot), and the cloud cover made for some stunning photographs I am sure.  Paul was asked to be the videographer for the day, which meant that we spent the whole time there.  It was a special day, and it made me think about our wedding day a lot.  In fact, it was very much like our day as well.  Cloud cover, cool weather, and generally a happy day.  Mel, looked beautiful, and we had fun with both the video camera and the still camera.
 
I have posted the pictures, so enjoy them, and also if you would like to see more of my work, then pop over to http://www.kimswanphotography.co.za and check out the galleries.

Friday 23 November 2007

Sunset at the North Pole

A scene you will probably never get to see, so take a moment and Enjoy God at work at the North Pole.

This  is the sunset at the North Pole with the moon at its closest Point.

And,  you also see the sun below the moon.
An  amazing photo and not one easily duplicated. You may want to pass It on to  others.

The Chinese have a saying that goes something like  this:
"When someone shares with you something of value,  you have an Obligation to share it with others!"

Sunset At The North Pole

Squealers and other news

 Amazing news! Mr and Mrs Blue now have another little hatchling squealing in the nest box. Two days ago Paul said to me that there was another bird in the box and I said I hadn't heard anything and he said that it was a new baby or Mrs Blue had lost it and was squealing like a baby. Then yesterday I heard a noise, and thought it was just the normal baby, till of course I heard the normal baby, very noisy little one that. So there you have it... two babies. Mrs Blue just had to try and out do me!

Tuesday's antenatal class was interesting, we had a midwife, Annie, telling us about different forms of pain relief for a drug free birth, some of which seemed very interesting, and nice, if you could think of something being nice in between contractions which could cripple, and probably will. She did have some hints for the husbands though, don't massage your wife during a contraction, you could lose body parts. I must say that it was a lot less distressing listening to her talking than to Gill, our normal midwife, who keeps telling us about episiotomies, and vividly reminding us of how the skin will stretch as the baby's head crowns. I shudder thinking about it now.

Today, I am 30 weeks into this pregnancy, and I am starting to get somewhat nervous. It is only 10 weeks until full term. Today this month we will be in East London, and then it will be Christmas, and then it will be the end of January and I will be going into labour. Imagine that. 2 months really, with a little more than a week over and above that. My mother asked yesterday what we still need for the baby, and I said I have no idea, and told her what we already have, and that was about all I could do. We still don't want to go overboard with nappies and the like, because you could get a brand and then the poor child has an allergic reaction to it, and then you have to go and try exchange them for another brand, and also I have no idea how big this baby is going to be, for all I know it won't even fit into newborn sized nappies.

We had our end of year function today, and went to a restaurant called Fabulous, which has a Moroccan theme, and it was quite a lot of fun. We had to take our shoes off before entering the restaurant, wash our hands with rose water and sit on bean bags around tables and they had platters in the middle of the tables for us to pick from etc. It was nice because you didn't have a set meal which would stuff you, and being pregnant, you try not to get too stuffed. I was a little disappointed though, I was really expecting more from the food, more flavoursome I imagine. You always think it will be, seeing it on TV on the cooking programs, and they use so much to enhance the flavours, and then you get the food. Maybe it was just because of the meals that we were having and I should give the place another chance. Apparently the upstairs has normal tables you can sit at on chairs, and you select your meal off a menu. But, apart from feeling very uncomfortable sitting on a bean bag, with a pregnant tummy, it was fun. They even have hubbly-bubblies for the patrons to puff on, which I avoided. They were lighting them up, as I was leaving, and I took Omesh with me, the other pregnant fairy in our office.

Last night also had it's fair share of thrills and spills. I was almost awake as I was starting to have a bad case of heart burn, it literally felt like someone was dropping acid in my throat with an eye-dropper, quite a sensation, and I heard a loud bang, which my brain managed to tell me, through all the fog, was a gun shot. I got up, to go to the loo and get something to drink, and saw that it was about 2am. That was quite hectic though. It sounded very close and not very fun when you are a pregnant fairy home alone, with your husband at least a 2 hour flight and some drive time away from you. But, there was only one bang and then there were a few dogs barking, but nothing after that, so I went back to sleep and didn't wake again till the morning.

Well, that is about it all for now. Till next time.

Wednesday 14 November 2007

28 week scan

Whew! What an experience! Cygnet was most unimpressed with the Doc for doing the scan, especially since he was pressing onto my tum.   It was fascinating to see what was actually going on inside me when I feel the little kicks, and also the not so little kicks.  Cygnet is very healthy, all 1.4kg of it, and Doc is happy about that as well.   Looks like we could have a big lil one on the way.  But then, you never know… maybe it'll plateau for a while.   According to the scan, Cygnet is about 2 weeks ahead of the game in size, which can't be a bad thing.   Other than when I have to give birth to it.

 

This time is so precious though, and although I can't wait to meet this little baby, I am also sad that this time is nearly over.   Ok, yes I still have more than 2 months to go, but in the bigger picture, that isn't really a long time.


The Antenatal classes have also begun, and the first one was a little daunting already.   I think Paul got more out of the class than I did, I just got a little scared about eh delivery, or a little more than I was already.   I know that there are all the relaxation techniques that are there to help ease the pain, but so far all the friends I have chatted to said they have very little effect while you are actually in the middle of the contraction. But, I am sure that there are things that I will learn that will be of benefit.   We have our next class this evening, so we will have to see what it holds.



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Sunday 11 November 2007

Fireworks and Budgies

Diwali has certainly provided some excellent opportunity for firework photography. Paul took pictures and I must say they came out well. The fireworks would be even better without the bangs though. I don't enjoy all the noise. You will see there is one of the fireworks, and also one of lightening that Paul took a while ago, that I thought would be nice to share.

Exciting news is that there is the small squeal of a baby budgie coming from the next box in Mr and Mrs Blue's cage. Very exciting because I was starting to lose hope that there would ever be a Blue Jnr. But, they have proved me wrong, and I am looking forward to meeting the lil one.

I have also added a picture that I took of the Durban cityscape at night, from the Wilson's wharf parking lot, which was fun to take, and I think the best picture I have taken all year. I must say that out of the many pictures that get snapped there are select few that really tend to excite.

We have also done some home improvements, with a new light fitting in the bedroom, since a ceiling fan is kind of redundant when you have an air-conditioner. The light fitting is a stainless steel fitting with directional down-lighters. I was blown away this evening when I went through to see what the lights looked like now that it is dark. WOW! I can't believe the difference. Paul also put up a 500W Halogen light in the garage so that he can work in there and see what he is doing. I think that it has made him quite happy.

I was also thrilled as my sewing machine went in for a service, and I am blown away by the difference, it is like I have a new machine. Sewing is a pleasure now, and I have finished the black skirt that I have been trying to finish for about 2 weeks. And it looks stunning I must say. Now that the machine is in such good working order I want to try new things, like some of the fancy stitches that the machine can do, and also Pat asked if the machine had a roll over hem foot (no idea what she was talking about) so I showed her all the feet that the machine has and I do apparently have one. Now just to figure out what they all do. There's even a darning foot! So now, while Paul is in the garage I can also be busy making stuff! Yay.

Monday 5 November 2007

Another weekend closer to the birth of our child...

After another whirlwind weekend, I have come to work feeling a little tired, but glad for the air conditioning that we have, as it has been very hot and humid this weekend.
 
We had an early start on Saturday morning, as Paul went cycling and I waited in the car, after which we went for breakfast with some friends, and then off to find something nice for Mom for her birthday.  We sorted out Paul's sound system as well, so that should be installed next weekend.  Thank goodness for the air conditioner in the bedroom, because we could have a cool nap in the afternoon.  Then it was off to friends for dinner, which was yummy and the company was wonderful.  we got home late though and didn't get much sleep as we were up early on Sunday morning because Paul was on sound duty at church.  Then it was home to sort out the food for the picnic we were going to for Mom's birthday.  It was a nice picnic, but by the end of it all I wanted to do was sleep, and the last thing on my mind was food.
 
I am now in the third trimester, and the tummy had definitely starting to grow.  I was also getting growth pains this weekend, and trying to get comfortable is becoming a bit of a problem.  Luckily the chairs here at work are comfortable enough and they support my back so I don't get so much lower back pain.  I have also started getting the pins and needles everyone talk about when lying on my back for too long.
 
I'm hoping to start using the gym at Paul's work now.  At least that way I will be able to "train" on the treadmill and the spin bike in safety and comfort, there is an air conditioner in the gym as well! Bring on the walking, because I can't Tae-bo anymore, it's just too uncomfortable.

Fascinating fact:

Your immune system is lowered during pregnancy. This prevents your body rejecting your baby, but also makes you more prone to coughs and colds.